The political season makes everything complicated. So much damned hearsay and mud slinging it’s nearly impossible to know who is lying and who is on the up and up.
Is Obama a Muslim terrorist? (No. Of course not, that’s stubbornly and sadly idiotic. Still, some easily deluded McCain supporters seem to think so). Is Sarah Palin’s youngest, disabled son really her daughter’s first illegitimate child? Probably not (but it makes for an exciting story, yes?). Is Senator McCain a dangerously aggressive prick? Well….perhaps. But it may have nothing to do with “MY HOLIDAY WITH JOHN McCAIN.”
There’s a story currently circulating the internet entitled “MY HOLIDAY WITH JOHN McCAIN” about a weekend spent on a resort island with McCain, which may or may not be true. It’s all reprinted below, but let’s go over some facts first. The name attributed as the author, UC Santa Cruz professor Mary-Kay Gamel, is false – she has denied the letter, saying it was forwarded to her, and she passed it on, and along the way someone attributed it to her. Big red flag there. Number two, this reddit thread which eventually leads to this blog asserts that the real author’s name is Anasuya Dubey, and that she is in the process of working with both the New York Times and Washington Post to verify her claims. Waiting on an update to see if this is true.
Who knows what percent of the letter is fabrication; this might be some Swift Boat disinformation/fallacy tactics. Mud slinging, baby! Just take everything with a grain of salt this political season and educate yourself, check your facts, and pray to Jesus, Buddha, Mohamed, Bill Hicks or whoever else signs your final check when the ride’s over.
Begin Forwarded Message (from my pal Toby):
I haven’t bothered to fact check this… but then, that seems somehow fitting doesn’t it? Given the guy’s history… it doesn’t surprise. I mean, he did dump his model of a wife after coming home from Vietnam a gimp himself (oh sorry, I mean hero), because she had been severely injured in a car accident and he didn’t think she was as hot as she used to be (google McCain’s first wife if you don’t know what I’m talking about… moral fortitude indeed!) He traded up and married the Ice Queen Cindy (an AZ brewing family heiress) just three weeks after divorcing her.
What I did find surprising… is that he reads at all, let alone Faulkner.
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MY HOLIDAY WITH JOHN McCAINIt was just before John McCain’s last run at the presidential nomination in 2000 that my husband and I vacationed in Turtle Island in Fiji with John McCain, Cindy, and their children, including Bridget (their adopted Bangladeshi child).
It was not our intention, but it was our misfortune, to be in close quarters with John McCain for almost a week, since Turtle Island has a small number of bungalows and their focus on communal meals force all vacationers who are there at the same time to get to know each other intimately.
He arrived at our first group meal and started reading quotes from a pile of William Faulkner books with a forest of Post-Its sticking out of them.
As an English Literature major myself, my first thought was “if he likes this so much, why hasn’t he memorized any of this yet?”I soon realized that McCain actually thought we had come on vacation to be a volunteer audience for his “readings” which then became a regular part of each meal. Out of politeness, none of the vacationers initially protested at this intrusion into their blissful holiday, but people’s buttons definitely got pushed as the readings continued day after day.
Unfortunately this was not his only contribution to our mealtime entertainment. He waxed on during one meal about how Indo-Chine women had the best figures and that our American corn-fed women just couldn’t meet up to this standard.
He also made it a point that all of us should stop Cindy from having dessert as her weight was too high and made a few comments to Amy, the 25 year old wife of the honeymooning couple from Nebraska that she should eat less as she needed to lose weight.
McCain’s appreciation of the beauty of Asian women was so great that David the American economist had to move his Thai wife to the other side of the table from McCain as McCain kept aggressively flirting with and touching her.
Needless to say I was irritated at his large ego and his rude behavior towards his wife and other women, but decided he must have some redeeming qualities as he had adopted a handicapped child from Bangladesh.
I asked him about this one day, and his response was shocking: “Oh, that was Cindy’s idea – I didn’t have anything to do with it. She just went and adopted this thing without even asking me. You can’t imagine how people stare when I wheel this ugly, black thing around in a shopping cart in Arizona. No, it wasn’t my idea at all.
”I actively avoided McCain after that, but unfortunately one day he engaged me in a political discussion which soon got us on the topic of the active US bombing of Iraq at that time.
I was shocked when he said, “If I was in charge, I would nuke Iraq to teach them a lesson”.
Given McCain’s personal experience with the horrors of war, I had expected a more balanced point of view. I commented on the tragic consequences of the nuclear attacks on Japan during WWII – but no, he was not to be dissuaded.
He went on to say that if it was up to him he would have dropped many more nuclear bombs on Japan. I rapidly extricated myself from this conversation as I could tell that his experience being tortured as a POW didn’t seem to have mellowed out his perspective, but rather had made him more aggressive and vengeful towards the world.
My final encounter with McCain was on the morning that he was leaving Turtle Island.
Amy and I were happily eating pancakes when McCain arrived and told Amy that she shouldn’t be having pancakes because she needed to
lose weight.Amy burst into tears at this abusive comment. I felt fiercely protective of Amy and immediately turned to McCain and told him to leave her alone. He became very angry and abusive towards me, and said, “Don’t you know who I am.” I looked him in the face and said, “Yes, you are the biggest asshole I have ever met” and headed back to my cabin.
I am happy to say that later that day when I arrived at lunch I was given a standing ovation by all the guests for having stood up to McCain’s bullying
Although I have shared my McCain story informally with friends, this is the first time I am making this public. I almost did so in 2000, when McCain first announced his bid for the Republican nomination, but it soon became apparent that George Bush was the shoo-in candidate and so I did not act then.
However, now that there is a very real possibility that McCain could be elected as our next president, I feel it is my duty as an American citizen to share this story.
I can’t imagine a more scary outcome for America than that this abusive, aggressive man should lead our nation. I have observed him in intimate surroundings as he really is, not how the media portrays him to be.
If his attitudes toward women and his treatment of his own family are even a small indicator of his real personality, then I shudder to think what will happen to America were he to be elected as our President.
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Mary-Kay Gamel
Professor of Classics, Comparative Literature, and Theater
Arts
Cowell College
University of California, Santa Cruz
I think John McCain is a pretty cool guy. Eh likes Asain women and doesn’t afraid of anything